This One isn't for You, if You're Offended by the F Word~

Fucking widowhood
Fucking life without him
Fucking heaviness
Fucking memories of you dying
Fucking bed sores
Fucking hole in the base of your spine where the tumor ate through your body
Fucking having to live without you every damn day

Fucking having to wake up and do life in the midst of fucking confusion that is just always there no matter what
Fucking relationships that tear apart after death
Fucking dark shadow of widowhood that scares people away even when you try to hide the shadows
Fucking nights staring at a tv show that you couldn’t even describe to someone even after watching it for an hour and another hour and another and you still couldn’t say
Fucking eyes that stare into nowhere and beyond nowhere into you know not what of nowhere
Fucking screams that get shoved down into your body because…well, who knows why?
Fucking judgment from every direction; too soon, too fast, too much, not enough, too dark, too light, too this, too that, too everything
Fucking cancer that ravaged and blew apart the body of the man I loved
Fucking tears that spill out no matter where or when
And fucking tears that don’t spill and choke you instead
Fucking energy to suit up and show up every day
And fucking judgements that it’s not enough or it’s not the right kind or it doesn’t matter just don’t be a fucking widow
Fucking widowhood that you’d tear off of you if you could and fuck that you can’t
Fucking doing every fucking thing you can and he’s still dead and always will be
Fucking skin hunger and fucking every damn thing about him being dead and gone
Fucking life fucking death fucking grief fucking breathing fucking everything without him
Fucking....f.u.c.k.


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  • Cathy
    commented 2018-02-04 18:33:38 -0800
    ditto…
  • Candace Woodring
    commented 2018-02-03 14:46:02 -0800
    Tell it like it is! Fuck whoever or whatever is running this place too!
  • Denise DiGrazia Lishefski
    commented 2018-02-02 16:42:53 -0800
    You hit the fucking nail right on the fucking head. Fucking cancer stole the love of my life too.
  • Teri Salazar-Moser
    commented 2018-01-31 20:07:31 -0800
    I feel this. Every fucking word!
  • Judy Kaan
    commented 2018-01-31 19:45:26 -0800
    Oy does this hit home!
  • Don Yacona
    commented 2018-01-31 11:09:11 -0800
    A FUCKING men! Fucking preach sista PREACH!
  • Sarah Treanor
    commented 2018-01-31 06:50:55 -0800
    Yes. Fucking yes to this. I might have to just print this out and keep it in my journal for those really fucking fuck kind of days. Thank you <3