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  • commented on Sometimes the Scary Thing Brings the Most Support - Sharing 2019-07-01 09:10:44 -0700
    Beautiful. As Kelley Lynn says, Love Grows Love.

  • commented on Numbers Again~ 2019-06-05 08:37:58 -0700
    Here’s to Love, and to you and Chuck! I’m now 10 years older than my first husband ever got to be. He’s been gone more than 12 years. I’m very happily remarried, living a great life, and still miss him and think of him every day. Love never dies.

  • commented on Widowing and Renaisance Faires 2019-03-06 05:18:57 -0800
    Professional mourner??!! We need more info, please! And photos!

  • commented on Oh, the Road of Crazy~ 2016-04-13 09:54:27 -0700
    The anticipation of each anniversary is usually the worst time for me, too. When I get to the point you’re describing (and I still do occasionally, even though it’s been over 9 years and I am happily remarried), I remind myself not to think about what might happen or where to go from here, but to focus only on what to do in the immediate moment. These are the times that you can’t even think about taking life day to day, it really needs to be just moment to moment, or even breath to breath.

    Be gentle with yourself.