You Are Not Alone Outreach

You Are Not AloneWidow.  Widower.  Widowed. These labels can be very hard to accept. After your spouse or partner dies, feeling that you are the only widowed person in the world is not unusual, but it can be terrifying. We can’t take away the pain you feel right now, but we can help.

Soaring Spirits communities, online and in-person, are diverse, inclusive, secular, and positive. We share resources, ideas, energy, and most importantly, hope.   We believe that hope matters. 

You Are Not Alone Outreach Cards

Do you know someone who is widowed? Have you wished you could DO something to ease their pain, or provide them with a useful resource to aid them as they adapt to their loss?

We can help.

Soaring Spirits’  You Are Not Alone cards are small folded business cards that contain all the information a widowed person would need to get connected with our widowed community. You Are Not Alone cards are free, easy to order, and small enough to carry in your purse or wallet.

These little cards make a big difference.

Get yours today

Newly Widowed Checklist

Soaring Spirits, in cooperation with the Liz Logelin Foundation, has created a checklist for the newly widowed.

As organizations founded by widowed people, we understand the trauma, fear, confusion, and loneliness that begins the instant your spouse or partner dies. We want you to know that there is a network of support, built by people who have lived through this same experience, available to you. Though you may be too overwhelmed to need us now, we will be here whenever you do.

Included on this list are a few things that we wished someone would have told us as we waded through the paperwork that is necessary when someone dies. This list is not an all inclusive road map, is not intended to be used as legal advice, and should not be considered a substitute for a meeting with a duly-licensed estate attorney, but it will provide you with some tips that may make things easier in the weeks and months ahead.

We provide this checklist free of charge to both widowed people, and to the people who love them, as a downloadable pdf.

Honoring our organizations’ joint purpose of helping as many widowed people as possible, we welcome other organizations to share our checklist with their communities. We respectfully request that any use of this checklist acknowledges authorship of this list, and that all contact information included on the document remains in tact.

Download the Newly Widowed Checklist

Newly Widowed Packet

In an effort to provide those who are recently widowed with easy to access to the Soaring Spirits community, and reliable resources and support within the first six months of widowhood, we've created our Newly Widowed Packets.

These packets contain Soaring Spirits program information, a copy of our newly widowed checklist, and a collection of personal messages from one widowed person to another. Newly Widowed Packets are provided free of charge to any widowed person through the generosity of a fellow widow/widower or one of the many groups/organizations that support Soaring Spirits' programs. Each packet contains a dedication written by the packet donor.

If you’d like to request a packet for yourself, use the link below and provide your contact details. We will get a packet out to you within one week of your request. We are so sorry you need us, but so, so glad you found us. Keep your eye on your mailbox, a widowed community will be arriving with your daily mail soon. 

If you'd like to request a packet for a widowed person in your life, please fill in the contact form with YOUR contact information. We will be happy to send the packet to you so that you can deliver it to the person for whom you've requested the packet. In order to honor the privacy of widowed men and women who have not requested our support, newly widowed packets are never sent out unsolicited. The protection of privacy is a vital part of our programs, and we very much appreciate your cooperation. We also appreciate your desire to share the Soaring Spirits community with someone you love, thank you.

Request a Newly Widowed Packet