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Widowed people created Soaring Spirits because we discovered that connecting with other widowed people made the challenges of surviving a spouse or partner a little easier to manage.

There is a widowed community here at Soaring Spirits that offers widowed men and women understanding, friendship, inspiration, and encouragement as they learn to live without the person with whom they intended to spend the rest of their lives. 

Soaring Spirits communities, both online and in-person, are diverse, inclusive, secular, and positive. We share resources, ideas, energy, and most importantly, hope.

We believe that hope matters.

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Widow Word~

W I D O W

Add an E R for the guys

W I D O W E R S

Both words mean the same thing.

Someone we loved died.

Someone we still love, died.

Gone, gone, gone

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Day-to-Day

20160925_142824.jpgAs has become more and more typical, I find myself sitting down to write, and not having a clear topic on where to focus.  The fact of the matter is, though I miss Megan, her death and absence is not all-consuming.  Far from it, actually.  Trying to spin an anecdote about my day-to-day life into something about grief or loss is exhausting sometimes, because grief and loss is not what my day-to-day life consists of.

I still have Shelby here.  Her schooling and upbringing is part of my day-to-day.  Going to work, paying bills, and taking care of things at home is part of my day-to-day.  Sarah is officially moved in with us, but we’ll still be organizing, merging, and unpacking her things for a while. That’s part of my day-to-day.

Megan died on November 19th, 2014.  A thought of her is part of my day-to-day, but to be honest, it’s a small part.

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Cole turns 3

cole.jpgMy youngest son just turned three! Birthdays are always a fun time for our family, it’s a time to come together and really celebrate life. Last year for his second birthday I didn’t do it as big as I normally do. I was still in a very dark state, I knew I had to celebrate his birthday but honestly I didn’t want to. So this year I made sure to make it special. We got a water slide and cooked out. He was so excited, I think this was the first year he really understood what was happening.

Birthdays are also a time of reflection. You look back on the year and see how much they have grown. You remember all the amazing things they did. And you try to understand how another year as past so quickly. 

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